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Increase Age of a Relationship

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Increase Age of a Relationship You should read this post as a message. And this post is applicable for both Man and Woman because both of them have this problem. This things make life of a relationships short but still we don't understand that. Everyone wants that their relationship should age well and bond between you and your partner should go more and more deep. I have few things in my mind to write about . "Hi Readers!! Aditya here again with some a message". First thing which I will say to stop is "Don't talk about Ex". Well everyone has a past sometimes it's good but sometimes it's bad. But problem is people regret their previous mistakes, we should learn from it and move on. And whenever such people get a date, after some casual talks they get on the topic of their Ex, maybe you don't like your Ex anymore but mentioning about Ex makes other uncomfortable and maybe your date will be an un-success. One of my fr...

Arranged Love [Part 2]

During those days there was a big a big conflict going between my country, ISJ and PSJ and mostly it was because of religion, so all the time some small attacks were always going on. But at home there was more conflict. Mom was trying to make that area like border because I dated a wrong girl, Dad was calm he wasn't saying anything but no one can understand Mom. And that thing wasn't really in my hand. Next weekend I again called Lena for a date and she was ready we met at a cafe. On our first date we both are not much comfortable with each other specially Lena was not comfortable and this time we enjoyed our quality time. We went to watch movie, shopping and many things . We enjoyed that day to the fullest. And the day felt short, it was really late then we decided to take a Hotel for a night. And to be really honest we both didn't want to return home. Hotel's room was great even really romantic. I took her dress of with my hands and obviously that day I lost my virgin...

Getting Prepared for a Relationship.

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Getting Prepared for a Relationship. As you might remember I wrote a post about Desperate single boys and girls and there I mentioned that these kind always get in a Fake Relationship. Are you Desperate Single Boy or a Girl ? Which is true to some extent and I totally agree on that.   But this post is special for all of them and some other people too.   “Hi Readers Aditya here again, I have been feeling a bit low due to some numbers I think they will not bother me again.”   Everyone wants someone in his life to speak, share, care and obviously get physical. But these things don’t happen rapidly, it takes time to build trust. Puberty is a stage in a human’s life which brings some changes in their body which starts their sexual life.   We all know about that.   But what if I tell you, it totally doesn’t make you ready for a relationship We need to prepare our mental state too.   And most of us forget about this, we are just running behind Girls and Boys. ...

Are you Desperate Single Boy or a Girl ?

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This is a very normal kind of observation and everyone feels it but no one talks about it because they are shy about it. Today I am on Desperate Single Boys and Girls. First a fall, kill this word "SHY" from your dictionary because this word will give you nothing it just shows failure and self-doubt.   "Hi Readers Aditya here again looks like you are loving my posts" Who are these Guys? I have been observing people who have a really different kind of perspective in their life. Their only goal in this is getting a girl or a boy. And whenever you will talk to them they will just try to show you that they are lonely and they feel that it is fucking amazing. When I was in 7th standard and I wasn't much cool and today I am also not cool but that time was like "Do what your friends are doing". Because our teachers used to set groups in class and it was on them with whom I will seat, so one of my friend was like this and as you know there were endless talks d...

Arranged Marriage [Part 2]

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As you all know I have started this series "Arranged Marriage" where I point out flaws , on the first I got really good views so I am here with new post , I hope you will like it" "Hi Readers ! Aditya again here just read it down" The next thing I want to discuss about is the age , I don’t know about other countries but in India for an arranged marriage the girl’s parents always try to find a guy who is almost 5 or more years older than the girl as they think “Maintaining age gap is important for a healthy married life and due to age the girl will respect the guy .” And you know what I am going to say this thinking “FUCKKK OFFFFFFFFF” this thing will not be healthy for for both girl and the boy and the so called “MARRIED LIFE”. Boy’s parents want a girl who is basically younger to the boy, less educated , and do all household chores . My simple question to all of them is “ Do you want a daughter-in-law or a maid?” This is my v...

Arranged Marriage [Part 1]

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Today I want to discuss about arranged marriage and I will talk about the consequences which happen and mostly I will point out bad things in that because it's not good and we should avoid it (according to me). "Hi Readers !! Aditya here again and I want to roast some old thinking of people which are still alive in old generation's parents I know parent's intentions are good but might not be healthy for his son/daughter ". First thing is "Caste". In India, it is the most important factor for example like my name is Aditya Joshi , so Joshi represents my caste but to be really frank I hate this that's why I always use my name as"Aditya J". Coming back to point caste , people consider same caste people as their family members and they as have same religion and same practices  so the marriage will be comfortable and easy , and to some extent I feel for a religious country like India it's good but people in our country start...