Getting Prepared for a Relationship.

Getting Prepared for a Relationship.

As you might remember I wrote a post about Desperate single boys and girls and there I mentioned that these kind always get in a Fake Relationship.

Are you Desperate Single Boy or a Girl ?

Which is true to some extent and I totally agree on that.

 

But this post is special for all of them and some other people too.

 

“Hi Readers

Aditya here again, I have been feeling a bit low due to some numbers I think they will not bother me again.”

 

Everyone wants someone in his life to speak, share, care and obviously get physical.

But these things don’t happen rapidly, it takes time to build trust.



Puberty is a stage in a human’s life which brings some changes in their body which starts their sexual life.

 

We all know about that.

 

But what if I tell you, it totally doesn’t make you ready for a relationship

We need to prepare our mental state too.

 

And most of us forget about this, we are just running behind Girls and Boys.

 

Let’s try to Understand it.

 

And as I mention in all my posts that “These all knowledge and examples are totally based on my experience”.

They are not Scientific Researches.

And of course we have to live in reality.

About mental state for a relationship, I would say you have control yourself.

I mean, you don’t have to over react, you need to be sincere and make your emotions tough.

 

For Example, You and your Girlfriend are watching an emotional movie and there are many scenes which will make you cry.

I am not saying you “Don’t express your feeling”.

Express it but in a limit, and don’t go in that flow stop there.

Because if your Girlfriend will see crying for a movie, she might not feel secured.

She will feel that you aren’t strong enough to protect her.

 

Let’s move forward and discuss about

Sexual feelings.

 

I have observed one of my friend who proposed a girl in morning and she said accepted him.

Well, that’s a great move but…

 

What my friend did is during class, he was on his smartphone and searching for “How to make sex memorable”.

Because she called him home for dinner with her parents.

And my friend is pervert and was thinking all the time about sex and he bought condoms too.

 

Are you getting what I am trying say?

 

I am just saying is “Don’t act like a fool”.

Act a bit sincere.

Getting Prepared for a Relationship is not a game.

Sex is not a game, it is just a way to express LOVE by getting physical.

And it needs trust , care and what not.

 

So, please delete your thinking about sex, if you think like this.

Sex can be done later on too , if your trust and love is true.

 

I think I should not mention it here but I am mentioning.



 

Porn is not showing you how to love.

Many people try to copy that, which is foolish according to me.

Porn is just a fantasy and treat it like that , don’t try to make it reality.

 

I am not here to explain how to have sex but I just wanted to write that, That’s all.

 

And don’t expect hugs and kisses for your partner in early stage, because building trust takes time. 

 

“I think you got my point what I wanted to express

Is it?

 

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