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I don’t know if you remember or not but when my blog started I wrote a post about “Feeling Rejected” and it got decent views but the way which I explained in that post needs a bit upgrade. Read it first to get some insights. Today I want to talk those things again but in a different way in a different approach and maybe that will change your mindset towards loving someone and I want that to change. I frankly feel people aren’t much interested in feeling love on their mental level, everyone wants it physical level that is obviously sex. I have talked about it’s importance here and I have also given some insights about culture as well. People should change their thinking about love as sex. It doesn’t mean that if you love someone so you are forced to have sex with him/her, if sex is really a benchmark of love then prostitutes living in every corner of the all cities are great lovers and we deeply know that they aren’t. Let’s discuss about some points which y...

Few days back I wrote a post about "Relationship Checklist". That was about to keep track of your Relationship and it worked well but I thought to write a post about "Expectations" and explore this topic a little bit. I have seen a lot of Blog posts over his topic but I felt this topic needs to be covered more because some expectations are myth. What are Expectations? Expectations are our own mind's game and nothing else, we are just thinking in our mind that "he will do something like that " or any other thing . My point why to expect anything I know he or she is your love partner and there are some things which you both should do but I don't expectations are something which doesn't really work. I even wrote a post about it earlier. https://slemtful.blogspot.com/2019/09/feel-better.html If not to expect then what to expect? There are many things to expect around but you know these expectations give you nothing...

Today in this post I want to talk about "Relationship Checklist" because when you are in a relationship you are not alone you have to take care of your partner and as well as you have to make that relationship working and exciting. So basically in this Relationship Checklist I will give you some points which you should follow and keep track of it, This Blog post is for both genders but I will recommend this post more to Females than Males. So now, let's get started ! One thing I wanna make clear is that i don't in what kind of relationship you are, maybe you are in Live-in or Long Distance. So which whichever point suits you apply that ignore other things! 1. Communication Maybe the most Basic and Necessary thing in a Relationship but still people still do a lot of mistakes in this as well . I am just giving an example If you are too busy in your work and don't have time to talk to him then just simply drop him an emoji, obviously the happ...

“She is a hot girl, Don't call her hot because she is girl not temperature. “ I have read this statement many times and some kind of statement is also for boys I will cover that in my upcoming but this post is dedicated to Single Boys and Girls too. “Hi Readers Aditya here again with another topic so let's start” I have observed this issue and many faced it too, there are many single boys who do this I can’t give this issue a name but I will try to make it clear to you and later on I will discuss about its solution. First I want to make it clear that “ Every Girl is beautiful is her own way.” Many single boys have crushes and whenever they meet them they start to behave strangely like they will laugh more or they they will do some kind of idiot shit. Behind the scenes they boy wants to impress that girl and he is just trying to show-off things and wants to make himself different from others, so that she will be his girlfrie...

" I believe that rejection is a blessing because it's the universe's way of telling you that there's something better out there." This thought is given by "Michelle Phan". " Just yesterday I got a call from one of my friend she was very sad and heartbroken then she narrated all the incidents happened and at the end she said and he rejected me, after that I hanged up her phone because at that time I wasn't able to speak relevant things then I was thinking about it overnight and finally got a solution to face rejection and I thought you readers also might have faced this so it is ..... Hi Guys this is Aditya and readers SUBSCRIBE TO MY BLOG because its free but also this increases my confidence and follow me everywhere you know". So readers ! First let's try to understand "What is rejection?"(Scientific Definition) Rejection  can be defined as the act of pushing someone or something away. One may experience ...

“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection”  This quote is given by  Sharon Salzberg. In my yesterday's article I discussed about Hesitation and its consequences , after publishing that I was reading it then my mind stroke about this and from that point of time I still thinking about it , which is "Importance of Self-Esteem in Love and Relationships". For a period of time I was thinking that there is negligible connection between them , then I went deep into it talked with some of my old school friends then I remembered my friend's relationship with Sophie, to be very frank it wasn't a relationship it was something between love and friendship , in other words I can say "Love which suffered Self Esteem". What is Self Esteem ?? I n psychology  , the term self-esteem is used to describe a person's overall sense of self-worth or personal value. In other words, how much you appreciate an...