A Real Love Marriage | Case Study Part 1

As you all know for writing relationship blog post and any other topic related to it needs observation which I am lacking because of Lock Down, I can't go out and you know it's tough for every blogger because staying at home isn't easy .

So I observed my neighborhood and there is a married couple and they are married for 3 years now and problem has gone so serious in this 3 years that they have applied for a divorce.

I was surprised knowing that it was a love marriage they knew each other from school time then they graduated got job but the wife refused to take up a job and wanted to stay at home as a home maker and the husband went for a job and good job in a design company and the wife used to give tuition to some children.

The husband actually belongs to a nearby small town but the wife belong to this urban city when they got married the wife started doing Masters from an open university so that she can stay at home not to go college or university and after 6 months the the husband got fired from the company and became jobless and but the financial condition wasn't gone down that much because she was doing tuition so it was going.

Out of frustration husband started drinking which is obviously bad, for next 6 months he did nothing was just sitting in home doing nothing.
He just used to scold and complain his wife with just because she wasn't giving him respect but in first year of marriage she was silent and almost said nothing to him because both loved each other school time so you can understand how deep their bond was.

But later on in second year the wife completed her masters degree and she got a job as a teacher in a nearby school and pay scale a decent and when she got the job a husband returned to his small town or village and he went there just to sell his old lands which he inherited from his father to sell them and make some money from it but he realise that the land which he was claiming belonged to some other relative, and that was a really big shock to him and his wife as well .

The court case ran for 5 to 6 months it's a slow process.

And in that time the wife lost her job as well, her job role was just a replacement.
They were in financial crisis and the monthly rent wasn't affordable to them.
They were unable to take money from their parents because she went against them to marry him and husband's parents were dead already.

Then a rumor was flying in society that the wife has an affair, which was obviously bullshit.
Then the wife got pregnant, if I tell you more I am very close to her whenever she is in problem she comes to me always and the extra-marital affair is just bullshit.
But her husband, unemployed , poor and frustrated.
Started drinking alcoholic drinks, very lazy man when he came to know about her pregnancy, obviously he might be the first person to know that but his reaction wasn't happy as in India children are treated as God's gift but showed no interest.
Then she got a job as a proper English teacher in a school full time working, this happened after a week of pregnancy news.

Next day, a normal husband will take care of wife because she is pregnant but he took all his items and left the house with a note.
I exactly don't know about the note but he left that house and returned to his village.
That message may have broken her from inside, she called her only brother and after that she called me and one of her friend.

"There's a lot more in this case I will discuss it in next part.
After completing this case story I will be discussing about mistakes and how to solve them".