Teen's Smartphone need Privacy???

There are something which parents need to understand.
I have a lot of topics to write over.
I will tell you why a teenager locks his/her phone and don't want to show it.
I have taken a very general example to explain it I hope you will understand it.

I have seen many parents taking whole control over their daughter/son.
Well that's not bad sometimes it's good to put up some boundaries.
But.....
Problem arises when parents try bump in their daughter's or son's smartphone.
Because parents think that it's not bad to check his/her phone because they should know everything about their son/daughter.

Here I will ask you a question?
"Have your son/daughter ever asked you about your sex life or how many girlfriends/boyfriends you had ??"

Obviously "NO".
If he/she will ask you such question, you guys will never answer it or directly scold him/her for such foolish question.
If we aren't asking you about your personal life the why should you care?

You should care about Health, Career, other things but I think bumping into someone's personal life is not good whether he is you own son/daughter.

I have talked about this to my mom about checking smartphone.
And she said, when they were teenagers, the phone concept was new and it was only for calling so they had to share that not only with parents but also with other neighbor families because phones were expensive.
And this is only reason why "Parents think phone should always be unlocked".

This post is not to prove parents wrong or anything but this is a post where you have to understand some things.

Nowadays smartphones are getting cheap day-by-day.
Every hands now have a smartphone.
So, there's no sharing at all.

Another problem is "No one wants to be alone in this world".

Whether your son/daughter is dating or they are single, they will still have friends of opposite gender.
Some parents find this very disgusting to have friends of opposite gender.
They think, if you are a boy you should have boy-friends.

And on their smartphones they have apps like Whatsapp, Instagram, Facebook e.t.c

Where they talk with them and discuss many topics it can be Sex, Relationships, other boys/girls, adult jokes or any other things.

And obviously according to you these things are objectionable and should not be seen or read but your son/daughter will do because it's their age.
If they will not discover about sex in this age, then when, you tell me??
And you guys expect a kid just after marriage?

And let him/her decide what is bad and what is good.
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