Boring Relationships (FIX) !!!

In every relationship a point comes when a person feels a kind of detached from his/her partner.

It simply means you both love each other, you both know each other’s value but still you will think that “This Relationship is not working”.

But from inside it’s working but it just needs a “Make-Over” or you can say “Refreshment”.

Why This Happens??

Everyone wants a exciting relationship even I want that like they should respect each other, they have patience for each other and all other things.

And when you get such kind of partner in your life, you just fly higher and higher in mean way you will get respect, love, care and etc.

And when you are loving your partner and everything is fine, a point comes where that excitement faces a loss, one person may not understand this but the second one understands it well and tries to make it as it was before.

This happens because of a sense of Security, when you were dating and then you finally came in this Relationship you get a sense of security that “Now this man will never see other women”.

To me, sense of security is a good thing and it should be present in all the relationships but at least a person should give time to his/her partner daily, it’s not like that you are with her physically but mentally you aren’t involved with her.

How To FIX This ?

There are a lot of ways to solve this but most effective ones are these.

First is Communication.

Talk to him/her about anything which interests her or engages her.

I have noticed many boys, who actually talk to their girlfriends but don’t give a fuck what they are saying which eventually results in their break up.

Second is “Make-Over”.

Many of us love other person on the basis of their looks and physique, which I don’t like but people  are doing it.

So I would suggest you to get  “Make-Over” as he wants, for example if he wants that you should wear jeans but you are wearing skirt so just for him and just for one day get a pair of jeans maybe he will love.

“I know your dresses are your choice but it is a relationship if you are getting respect then you should respect other person too just put your EGO aside”.

This things applies on boys as well.

Third thing is “SEX”.

We all know sex is important in a relationship.

Sexual Pleasure, Intimacy and things are quite important and should not be ignored.

And here problem arises is a person gets bored after having sex in same method, it means one day you had sex with him in position A and out body always tries to find it’s comfort zone so we understood that for having sex this position is good.

But from a Relationship point of view, it starts getting boring and boring day-by-day because we need variation we love doing new things.

Both the tendencies, first is Comfort and Second is Something New both are related each out body and brain we just need to balance them.

In other words it is also called “Spicing the things up”.

Forth thing is “Trip”.

Go on a Solo trip, if you have time and start ignoring him for some time.

When both of you will be done with your ignorance and ego, we all know at the end the LOVE will win and it will always WINS.



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