Are You Sexually Attracted??

This is a topic which I never touched in any of my blog posts.
On my blog I have discussed about Love, Relationships, Sex and even Crushes but what about "Sexual Attraction".
We have faced this many times but most of us have a doubt about it, so I am here to clear them all.

Why there's a confusion?

Almost all of us have a slight confusion about attraction and sexual attraction.
This is because nobody talk about this and sometimes we even mix their sense and use only word "Attraction".

What Is It?

Sexual Attraction refers to a kind of attraction where a person is attracted towards the opposite sex only on the basis of his/her body looks.
In relationships and normal attraction, mature people don't give a fuck to looks and that's good!!.
That look, pretty face and six pack abs will disappear in few days but from inside the person will be the same.

And that's the place where sexual relationships come into play.

Let's consider a girl, who is good looking and she wants to date a boy who has six pack abs and beard and all that.
One day she gets her perfect boy as she wanted with all that physical looks, she will be happy with him for few days but when she will done licking and sucking his body for some days.
She will start hating that man because both don't love each other they are just attached just because of their body and at the end relationship will come to an end.

Physical attraction can drive any person crazy because genital organs always stay in exciting state they really don't have any sense of "Wrong" and "Right".

And as usual here also comes the game of "Heart" and "Brain" and specially in this case we should use our brain here because such sexual attractions can create bad situations also, I totally agree listening to heart is good but not always.

Example:-

You went to a party and you see a girl very near to your age and seeing her your genitals got excited because her ass is amazing, these feelings are so heavy in your head that you will start creating fantasies about and you will see your hand grabbing that ass.
If you will use your brain here you may ignore her or can simply talk to her and if you will listen to your heart you may grab her ass immediately.
Just imagine if she is your some distant cousin sister or any other relative so what kind of image will you have ?
If that girl will understand this then it may create no effect but we all know our society is filled up with assholes.
So we should be careful.

I want to make a point clear here that I am against to listening to your heart but most of the times it's wrong.

Is it Good or Bad?

You need to understand is nothing is bad and nothing is good in this world because everyone has it's vision to see this world.
According to me, it's a human nature and we really can't do anything about these things it's all some games of our hormones which are related to sex.

It's very common or you can say natural to feel attraction towards opposite sex and mostly sexual relationships.
Problem arises when a boy is already is in relationship but he is sexually attracted to any other lady .

You can relate to this attraction by sex like if you love having sex then you will be doing it today and then tomorrow as well but our body loves variations, so you may use other sex positions or change anything just to maximize sexual pleasure.

This same principle applies on Sexual Attraction like today you saw Woman A and you got attracted to her because of her legs but next day you got sexually attracted to Woman B because of her face.

So at the end it brings our choices back to bodily level which isn't good we have go to real love at intellectual level.

"That's it for today I hope you got my point" 
BYe