Is Sex Important In A Relationship??





"Hi Readers , Aditya here and today I want to give my thoughts on sex in a relationship many people are confused in this I hope you guys will find it useful"




First a fall I would say "Sex is not a bad thing" because many people think its a bad thing its a shameful act but simply that's not true.
Sex makes male and female partner more close and it increases trust between them .



According to me, boys and even girls never hesitate on having sex, because it is enjoyable and it is something new to do, if they find a correct private place and mood.
Sex is just a act between two people and I feel there are only two factors on which a girl or a boy denies for sex, I am not talking about AIDS and all that, these are just two practical factors, first one is "Our Society"



Yes! Society is the biggest enemy for any couple, they just find couple to bully them, these people always see couples as a devil and they are worst people on the Earth, and this not restricted to bully them this society also changes the mindset of couples and in India "Virginity of Girl" is really important if she is not virgin then she is totally characterless and this thinking makes girls uncomfortable in having sex, and they try to avoid sex.



Even people belonging to rural area are so sicked that they got an idea to test a girl I have seen it then I am telling you, there was a wedding ceremony going on, that night was the first night on which the couple sleeps together while the couple is happy about their marriage the old generation of the family puts a white bedsheet on the bed, as its a science when a girl does anal sex for first time the hymn breaks and it comes outside in the form of red blood, and in the morning they went to the couple's room and checked the bedsheet, there was blood so the girl proved her good character, if for example she wasn't virgin then this old generation might had bullied her in the public and if old generation is doing this in their pressure the parents also restricts boys and girls attachment, this also resulted into the formation of different schools for boys and girls.
This is our fucking society.






And the second factor is cheating. 
If your partner is cheating on you, then he/she might be uncomfortable in getting intimate with you, mood is a secondary factor.



If you people understand each other 
Then you are in love
If your love is pure and true
Then sex will make you more close.




Many boys and even girls want to use other people for their sexual satisfaction by playing with their feeling, this is totally unacceptable. 

To sum it up I would say sex is not a bad thing and also it has a little space in a relationship, I can say "Sex depends upon relationship" but relationship doesn't depends upon sex. And it happens when you are comfortable with your partner.




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Comments

  1. Your article shows the difference between cultures. I have been married for almost ten years and I will say that, yes sex is important. It isn't the defining factor of our marriage but it is important to a healthy relationship. Great article :)

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